All photos accompanying this article are from an academic competition held this week at Living Faith.
Here is Madam Agnes's story in her own words.
"I was born in Tamale, in the Northern Region of Ghana, in 1958. My father was a civil servant and my mother was forced to marry him at the age of fifteen, as was custom. When I was two years old, my father told us to move to my mother's Volta North hometown while he stayed behind to work.
When my father wrote back to tell my mother that the marriage was over, my mother was so shocked that she went mentally crazy.
My mother and grandmother couldn't find money to take care of me, so when I was three years old, they gave me to a woman in a far away village who wanted a maid.
I grew to school age, but the woman said that I could not go to school. I should just be a maid and take care of her house and children.
I didn't even know where my mother and grandmother and siblings were. If I cried too much, I was beaten. I was suffering so much, but I was cornered and could not be free.
One day when I was selling vegetables, I walked by a school. The lady who was teaching kindergarten bought some food from me and asked, "Why are you not coming to school? Tomorrow, don't sell. Instead, come here." I told her I couldn't. I kept selling, but the words of that teacher stayed on my mind.
But back at the house, the family screamed any time they heard me practicing poems, "Keep quiet! You are not going to school-- how did you get this?" All the same, I returned to the school to learn whenever I could.
The teacher began to notice me, and one day she asked to see the house where I was living so she could formally enroll me in school. I said, "If you come to the house, they will kill me. Don't come at all!"
When the teacher arrived at the house, my heart was jumping out of my body. I knew punishment would soon come. After the teacher asked the woman in charge of me why I was not in school, she left. Right then and there, my caretaker threw me on a bed and began cutting me with her fingernails, screaming, "Why did you tell the teacher those things?"
Bitterness and sorrow fell into me, but I had no way out. I could not go running to my mother for help, because she was in a far place. Nowadays we call what happened to me "child labor" and "child abuse."
Thank God, when my grandmother heard this, she came to take me home. Because my family still had no money, I had to work selling firewood and cocoa to pay my school fees. But I realized: I needed education no matter what.
Why did I need education? It was clear to me that the reason why we had all fallen into this terrible situation was because my mother was illiterate. And so I said: "I will go to school until I am torn apart!"
Now that I am grown, I run this school and home for children who need help as I so desperately needed help back then."


Such a powerful story and why education is the best tool against poverty and crime. When you put yourself in the hands of another, you never know what will happen. Your best interests are never addressed.
ReplyDeleteI am not exaggerating when I say that Madam Agnes is one of the most interesting and powerful people I have ever met in my life. She tells these horrible tales of her life all the while flashing her warm smile that is apparent in the photos above and with no bitterness. It's truly incredible. And now she is helping children avoid being treated similarly by taking them into her wonderful school. This woman truly is a blessing to her community. And I'd be remiss if I didn't mention her skills as a cook. Do whatever you can to get yourself invited over for lunch. It might be your best meal in Ghana.
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